Tag: bisexual men exist

  • Happy Bisexual Visibility Day

    Just a quick post to say Happy Bi Visibility Day. I’ll do my bit, fly the flag, wear my pin with pride, and …….. sit in unfathomable positions in my deluxe office chair πŸ˜† Much love πŸ©·πŸ’œπŸ’™

  • A Question of Masculinity

    Reflecting back on 20 odd years of denial is an important part of accepting my bisexuality. Such a significant period of time takes some unpacking, and I’ll admit that I am ultimately left with a knawing feeling of regret. I know I shouldn’t look back in this manner, but I do wish that I’d had…

  • Doing My Bit for Bi Visibility – I Came Out at Work

    So, the article was published. No negatives so far, a couple of good chats. Hopefully more to come. Have a read. The article included a photo and my contact details …… I really went all in! “For me, bi-identity means to be attracted to more than one gender, and Robyn Ochs, a bi-activist summarises it…

  • A Big Step Forward (Still here …… just busy)

    Well, Hello! Today (14th September) will be a big step. Today, I commit to do something I would have never considered just 12 months ago. Today, I will take the plunge and go all in. Sorry I’ve been away for a while. I originally intended just to take two weeks out whilst on holiday. I…

  • I’m sorry, lads, I just don’t fancy you!

    I’m sorry, lads, I just don’t fancy you!

    I had a thought this week. “Isn’t it funny how I don’t find any of the lads attractive?” I mused. “I mean, statistically, you would have thought there would be at least one fitty that I have some sort of embarrassing (and never to be revealed) crush on. What a weird coincidence”. What a “coincidence”…

  • “Well, Come on out! ……

    ……. The air is fresh, the chairs are uncomfortable, and the lemon bars are zingy!” Lemon Bars – I didn’t know they were even a thing. So, I didn’t know they were so tasty nice. And I never realised they are so, so, so tasty nice. As many do, I sought answers to my personal…

  • Why did it take me so long?

    This is a question I have asked myself quite a few times over the last 2 years. Why on earth did it take me over 20 years to arrive at the obvious? I recognised that I was attracted to males at about the age of 14. I was a bit surprised but it didn’t phase…

  • Let me introduce myself

    Now let’s get one thing straight …….. I’m not! Hello, I’m Si and I’m bi. In my early 40’s, married to my soul mate and guiding light. We have two brilliant children, a mini menagerie of pets and live in a leafy suburb in the Midlands. To the passing glance, I am the stereotypical bloke.…

  • Welcome to my Therapy!

    Hello! Welcome to Living the Bi Life, my blog I’ve decided to write to share my experience of being bisexual. I hope you like it, maybe it might help you, maybe it might help me. I do hope you enjoy