Tag: bi chaos

  • It’s all right, you know!

    It feels pretty good, being outish. Out to my wife, out to close friends, out at work and out to a few hundred of you guys, both here and on a few socials. And it’s all right. And by “all right” I mean that it’s OK. It’s goodish, it’s positive, it feels nice overall. That’s…

  • A Big Step Forward (Still here …… just busy)

    Well, Hello! Today (14th September) will be a big step. Today, I commit to do something I would have never considered just 12 months ago. Today, I will take the plunge and go all in. Sorry I’ve been away for a while. I originally intended just to take two weeks out whilst on holiday. I…

  • I’m sorry, lads, I just don’t fancy you!

    I’m sorry, lads, I just don’t fancy you!

    I had a thought this week. “Isn’t it funny how I don’t find any of the lads attractive?” I mused. “I mean, statistically, you would have thought there would be at least one fitty that I have some sort of embarrassing (and never to be revealed) crush on. What a weird coincidence”. What a “coincidence”…

  • “Well, Come on out! ……

    ……. The air is fresh, the chairs are uncomfortable, and the lemon bars are zingy!” Lemon Bars – I didn’t know they were even a thing. So, I didn’t know they were so tasty nice. And I never realised they are so, so, so tasty nice. As many do, I sought answers to my personal…

  • Why did it take me so long?

    This is a question I have asked myself quite a few times over the last 2 years. Why on earth did it take me over 20 years to arrive at the obvious? I recognised that I was attracted to males at about the age of 14. I was a bit surprised but it didn’t phase…